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Update on the Roomie
Feb. 26th, 2002 03:31 pm[2/26/2002 12:31:13 PM ]
Sorry to delay-- here's the note the roomie sent me. This was last week, we haven't heard from him since. I'll annotate afterwards.
Susan,
Well I guess first things is i am terribly sorry that all this has happened to you to Eric, and too myself. I have been in your position before like I said, so I really do know how you feel. But you also have to understand how I feel. Someone I let into my house that I thought I knew I could trust has stolen from my roomate and also stolen from me, things such as trust and saftey in our own homes. Eric said he does believe you really had money stoled, like I told him, I do not know you but in passing and conversation as well as the same as you dont know me other than that, nor Eric, so I didn't
know if this was some scam for me to lose money, I am not rich either I have school and loan payments, rent,bills ect. As for the bottles, I have replaced them and I do feel terrible. I myself am not drinking anymore for a
while for personal reasons.
I am sure Eric might of mentioned but I have been in New York, my grandfather passed away this weekend so we have the funeral and wake to go to. I have lost so much in my life, I dont want to lose a potential life long friend as I see in you. I cannot change what has happened, but I can try to make up for it. I do intend on finding out who has done it and I will get you a formal appology and if you would like to press charges from there, thats cool, hell I might even. I do not want you to not feel safe in the house, or that you can not trust me or what I say. I want to do right by you Susan, as well as Eric as I would expect for me. I am moving to Ogunquit in May so I am only staying for two more months. Thats two months I would really like to start and blossom a friendship from that with both you and Eric.
Im pissed because no body asked for this, someone came in from outside and fucked it all up. That person just so happened to come thru me, so I take responsibility. I will get you the money that was taken, Eric told me 100, is that correct? As well as the bottles and hopefully we can go from there. Again I appologize from the bottom of my heart Susan, you did not deserve this, none of us did. I will be back home probably on Thursday so hopefully you are around so we can talk? You can also email me here at hh46920@aol.com if you have anything you want to talk about now or just to say hi. My mind has been spinning about this and now with a death... im just gonna explode so
we need to get this resolved and move on. Talk to you soon Susan, xoxo Tim
OK, read it? Now, dig this. I read this on Thursday. On Friday I'm home alone and the phone rings. It's his mom, wanting to know where Tim is. I tell her I don't know, she seems confused. I say I was under the impresion that he was away on a family emergency. Now she says "*What?!*" I backpedal then, say maybe it's not Tim I'm thinking of; his grandfather didn't just die?" "No." she says definitely. I say sorry, and she says they were supposed to have dinner, she'd figured he was either here or at Brian's (his ex-fiancee). I told her I was sure he must be at Brian's and hung up. Fifteen minutes later I check my mail and get an email from Tim explaing that we might get a call from a ladyfrind of his calling herself his mother but she's really just an old friend of the family but she doesn't know about
his grandfather yet but he didn't want us to be freaked by that-- I could print it, but it really wasn't much more convincing than that.
So I told Eric when he got home and by this time it's funny.
Yesterday I stopped by the Westbrook Police Department and spoke to the guy there (yes, singular. Everybody else was out.) He said the best thing to do was just tell him to come get his stuff and leave. He offered to have an officer come stand by while he left with his stuff "To ensure there's no verbal or physical abuse to you." Sometimes it's nice to be a girl, but especially with the police.
We've decided now to rent his rooom to an old friend of Eric's, Mike, and to tell Tim to come get his stuff. I have to wonder if it will actually happen.
OK, done with the Tim saga. For now.
Going back to work!
Sorry to delay-- here's the note the roomie sent me. This was last week, we haven't heard from him since. I'll annotate afterwards.
Susan,
Well I guess first things is i am terribly sorry that all this has happened to you to Eric, and too myself. I have been in your position before like I said, so I really do know how you feel. But you also have to understand how I feel. Someone I let into my house that I thought I knew I could trust has stolen from my roomate and also stolen from me, things such as trust and saftey in our own homes. Eric said he does believe you really had money stoled, like I told him, I do not know you but in passing and conversation as well as the same as you dont know me other than that, nor Eric, so I didn't
know if this was some scam for me to lose money, I am not rich either I have school and loan payments, rent,bills ect. As for the bottles, I have replaced them and I do feel terrible. I myself am not drinking anymore for a
while for personal reasons.
I am sure Eric might of mentioned but I have been in New York, my grandfather passed away this weekend so we have the funeral and wake to go to. I have lost so much in my life, I dont want to lose a potential life long friend as I see in you. I cannot change what has happened, but I can try to make up for it. I do intend on finding out who has done it and I will get you a formal appology and if you would like to press charges from there, thats cool, hell I might even. I do not want you to not feel safe in the house, or that you can not trust me or what I say. I want to do right by you Susan, as well as Eric as I would expect for me. I am moving to Ogunquit in May so I am only staying for two more months. Thats two months I would really like to start and blossom a friendship from that with both you and Eric.
Im pissed because no body asked for this, someone came in from outside and fucked it all up. That person just so happened to come thru me, so I take responsibility. I will get you the money that was taken, Eric told me 100, is that correct? As well as the bottles and hopefully we can go from there. Again I appologize from the bottom of my heart Susan, you did not deserve this, none of us did. I will be back home probably on Thursday so hopefully you are around so we can talk? You can also email me here at hh46920@aol.com if you have anything you want to talk about now or just to say hi. My mind has been spinning about this and now with a death... im just gonna explode so
we need to get this resolved and move on. Talk to you soon Susan, xoxo Tim
OK, read it? Now, dig this. I read this on Thursday. On Friday I'm home alone and the phone rings. It's his mom, wanting to know where Tim is. I tell her I don't know, she seems confused. I say I was under the impresion that he was away on a family emergency. Now she says "*What?!*" I backpedal then, say maybe it's not Tim I'm thinking of; his grandfather didn't just die?" "No." she says definitely. I say sorry, and she says they were supposed to have dinner, she'd figured he was either here or at Brian's (his ex-fiancee). I told her I was sure he must be at Brian's and hung up. Fifteen minutes later I check my mail and get an email from Tim explaing that we might get a call from a ladyfrind of his calling herself his mother but she's really just an old friend of the family but she doesn't know about
his grandfather yet but he didn't want us to be freaked by that-- I could print it, but it really wasn't much more convincing than that.
So I told Eric when he got home and by this time it's funny.
Yesterday I stopped by the Westbrook Police Department and spoke to the guy there (yes, singular. Everybody else was out.) He said the best thing to do was just tell him to come get his stuff and leave. He offered to have an officer come stand by while he left with his stuff "To ensure there's no verbal or physical abuse to you." Sometimes it's nice to be a girl, but especially with the police.
We've decided now to rent his rooom to an old friend of Eric's, Mike, and to tell Tim to come get his stuff. I have to wonder if it will actually happen.
OK, done with the Tim saga. For now.
Going back to work!
